You are a mom or son who has a sexual desire for the other and are wondering if he or she returns the desire. You may have caught his/her eye before and not even realized it. Or, even if he or she hasn’t considered you as a potential mate, that doesn’t mean he or she won’t with a little strategic courting.

By far, the most common question we hear from both perspective moms and sons is how to determine if their mom/son would be interested in having sex with them.

Gauging sexual interest from the other party or, in some cases, stimulating interest is the first step to take on the journey to mother-son sexual relations once you realize it’s something you want to pursue. It’s important to accurately surmise their interest before proceeding with the actual solicitation. This reduces the risk of potential backlash when you do decide to make an actual attempt.

Many moms and sons have considered having sex with each other but are too afraid to act upon it (or maybe even afraid to admit it to themselves). There are potential signs to look for.

First, it makes sense to examine the motivations of why a mom and son choose to have sex together. Do you detect any of these motivations from the other individual?

Look for other signals he or she may be leaving. On the flip side, these can be some great tips to signal your desires and test the waters.

  • Has he/she been checking you out, or tried to catch glimpses of you naked?
  • Has he/she paid you compliments that could be seen as flirting?
  • Has the topic of sex come up more often than usual, or become more detailed?
  • Are his/her clothes more revealing, or has he/she found excuses to expose themselves, perhaps by letting their robe hang loose or presenting opportunities where you would walk in on them naked such as forgetting a towel when bathing?
  • Has he/she initiated closer physical contact than usual – hugs and cuddling that lingers?
  • For moms, does your son have frequent and obvious erections when in your presence, especially during physical contact? Does he cover it up or openly sport it around you?
  • Has he/she presented opportunities for you to catch him/her masturbating, perhaps by leaving the door open or by doing it in a common area?
  • For moms, have you found your dirty panties missing, perhaps even in his possession?
  • Check internet browsing history for any sign of mom-son porn, or porn involving your age in general.

Evidence of these activities is not a 100% guarantee of sexual interest, but they are good gauges of possible interest even if they’re being done subconsciously. They may be obvious or you may have to flush them out a bit. And don’t worry, even if he/she isn’t leaving obvious signals it doesn’t mean he/she isn’t interested, but perhaps is good at hiding emotions.

Once you’ve comfortable and have a decent enough belief that there is shared sexual interest, it’s time to get bolder with your solicitation and eventually make your move.