Once you decide that you want to have an incestuous relationship, you need to court and seduce your chosen partner and get them to consent. If they don’t consent, respect their choice and don’t force it.

The good news is that many (perhaps most) moms and sons do desire being sexual with each other and just need to be propositioned. Unfortunately, there is no easy way to find out without some level of risk.

The bad news is that it may not be possible in every circumstance. There are a multitude of possible denial reasons. Some people just can’t ignore the magnitude of breaching the incest barrier, either from personal morality conflicts or social acceptability. They may be too scared of ruining your good relationship to take such a risk. They may just not possess a sexual attraction toward you in general, or have a hard time seeing you as a sexual being. This is especially true for moms, who will always see their son as her little boy regardless of his age.

While it’s usually the son who is the instigator in mom-son couplings, it’s predictably easier for a mom to seduce her son than the other way around. This is true of a woman seducing a man in general. Both have chances at succeed and both situations occur. However, moms usually need more convincing than sons. Mom is usually more fearful of causing harm because she has been responsible for her his well-being his entire life and gives more concern to protecting him. There is also a higher likelihood that the son has given serious consideration to starting a sexual relationship beyond a simple fantasy. It may also be easier for the son to understand why you find him – a young, fit, energetic lad – sexy than for the mom to understand why her son finds an older lady desirable.

The first step in courting is to gauge their interest. Look for certain behaviors that suggest a sexual attraction. The most obvious of these are flirty compliments, closer physical contact than ordinary, or increased exposure, either direct nudity or indirectly through more revealing clothing. Read more tips on gauging interest here.

If these behaviors aren’t obvious, you may have to send him/her signals to flush them out and entice through seduction by presenting yourself as a viable sexual partner.

Sending signals helps, but in the end, someone has to be courageous to take the bold initiative to ask. It’s very unlikely to happen without the instigator taking some risk to push things along is. Your partner may want this to happen (and even considered it), but will never have the courage and needs you to literally say that you want to make love with him/her.

Once you decide you want to pursue a sexual relationship with your mom/son, formulate a plan and just go for it. Assuming you have a good relationship, he/she will hear you out and not rebuke you because he/she loves and respects you.

Don’t be disappointed if his/her initial response is negative, perhaps even angry (or sometimes laughter). This is expected when presented with such an astonishing request from someone so close. It isn’t anger or amusement as much as a defense to the absolute shock that you have this sexual desire. Don’t pressure. Give him/her time and space to reflect. Most will eventually come around.

It might help to agree to take things slow and apply brakes at any time. Agree to a date night. Nothing has to happen. If it helps, ignore the fact that you are related and role play as a normal couple.

Courting Suggestions

Your goal in courting is to both signal your intention to become sexual and to convince him/her that you are a sexual being and viable mate because he/she may not already be thinking about you sexually.

Talk about sex and talk about it often. The more you talk about sex, the better. This not only eases each other’s comfort level regarding sex, but repeatedly associates sex between the two of you. Start small and increasingly grow bolder. Ask simple science-related questions, showing curiosity about their body and sex. Ask about how he or she lost their virginity, or when was their last time? Ask about their favorite positions. Ask about their favorite or least favorite sexual experience.

“Accidental” exposure. Accidentally sext them a nude photo or let them “walk in” on you naked. If you’re a man, try to be aroused when it happens.

Conveniently “forget” a towel when bathing and either prance out of the bathroom naked or ask for them to bring you a towel. Let your robe fall open, either partly or fully. Walk in on them naked, either by “accident” or request (ie. To grab something or brush your teeth).

Spill some wine or something else on your clothes so you have an excuse to quickly discard them before they stain. Might be a good day to go commando.

Dress revealing. Show more skin; unbutton that top and wear skimpier bottoms. Wear tight-fitting clothing that amplifies your goods. Perhaps even lounge around in your underwear (or nude if you’re that bold).

Get caught self-pleasuring. Create a situation where he or she will walk in on you masturbating. Simply leave your bedroom door open, or masturbate in a common area of the house. Try to climax right as you’re getting discovered. Afterward, let him/her know that you didn’t care they caught you, ask what they thought about it, and maybe even invite them to watch next time.

Steal his/her undergarments. Take their dirty underwear and leave them in your room for them to find; even better if you leave cum behind in them.

Leave obvious clues about your interest in incest. Leave open a web browser indicating that you’ve been doing research on incest, or watch incest-themed porn.

Reveal your desire for people his/her age. Admitting that you have a general sexual interest in people of his/her age overrides the common confusion of “why me?” This is especially true for sons seducing moms.

Revealing a sex dream about them. Saying that you had a sex dream about them not only signals an obvious desire (even if self-conscious), this really helps gauge his/her own interest through their reaction. It can open the door to further talk of “what if” or “would we ever.”

Flirt and tease. Old-fashioned flirting and teasing always helps. Tell him/her you think they look sexy, or that you wish you weren’t related… “If you weren’t my mother, I’d ask you out.”

Get chummier/become more physical. Hug or cuddle more often, tighter, and longer. If you’re the son, try to be aroused and poke her. Juicier and more passionate kissing – don’t be afraid to slip in tongue. Provide massages – gradually make them more and more sensual.

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